I studied in a Girls’ school. After completing my schooling, I got enrolled in B.Sc course in B.H.U., but in MMV (a girls’ college). At that time, I used to have only one male friend, and that was my brother Anup Kavimandan. I do not remember any other male friend of mine till 2010. Then in the final year, I had to attend my classes with final year boys. There I met a totally spineless creature 😀 and he was the only one to talk to girls. He actually used to do bitching about each and every guy of the class. …whatever! O yes, I had some female friends.. Pramila 🙂 she was not girlish, and that was the best thing about her 😀
After completing my Graduation, I got enrolled in M.Sc course int he same university. There were so many boys in our batch. I was more comfortable with the guys when compared to my girl friends.. Madhurima was my friend. I could never understand the mentality of the girls of my batch. They were riddles for me. I found myself different from them. My dad died just after I got admission in B.Sc BHU. But still, my mom never kept me in boundations. She just let me be myself and kept her faith on me 🙂 (love you aai!)
Ankit Singh, Sandip Bagchi, Arjun Pakrashi, Barshan, Manish, Pallab, Subhendu, …and the list goes on.. (Love you all 🙂 ) I could mix well up with these people. We had arguements for sure, but still, I found them less complicated when compared to girls.. and the boys never counted me in the girls of the class.
When the course got over, my life suddenly became a void. I started missing them like anything. Never thought that I will miss those stupid people so much. There were a few seniors who are still good friends of mine. Debapriya di, Ranajoy, Debasish, Bishu, Wreet…. so many ppl.. we are still in touch 🙂
Then I joined Cogni.. and again the same thing happened.. Sarvesh, Sanket, Alpesh, Satyen, Raveen… girls were my friends too. Ami, Moni, … so many people. But best friends were male I guess.. 🙂 (Love you Mystic geekos! 🙂 )
I do not understand why am I still not comfortable with typical girls’ mentality. I somehow find them confusing, wierd, complicated.. I still have some female friends though 😛 but still, I do not get them