being the Odd One Out..!

I studied in a Girls’ school. After completing my schooling, I got enrolled in B.Sc course in B.H.U., but in MMV (a girls’ college). At that time, I used to have only one male friend, and that was my brother Anup Kavimandan. I do not remember any other male friend of mine till 2010. Then in the final year, I had to attend my classes with final year boys. There I met a totally spineless creature πŸ˜€ and he was the only one to talk to girls. He actually used to do bitching about each and every guy of the class. …whatever! O yes, I had some female friends.. Pramila πŸ™‚ she was not girlish, and that was the best thing about her πŸ˜€

After completing my Graduation, I got enrolled in M.Sc course int he same university. There were so many boys in our batch. I was more comfortable with the guys when compared to my girl friends.. Madhurima was my friend. I could never understand the mentality of the girls of my batch. They were riddles for me. I found myself different from them. My dad died just after I got admission in B.Sc BHU. But still, my mom never kept me in boundations. She just let me be myself and kept her faith on me πŸ™‚ (love you aai!)

Ankit Singh, Sandip Bagchi, Arjun Pakrashi, Barshan, Manish, Pallab, Subhendu, …and the list goes on.. (Love you all πŸ™‚ ) I could mix well up with these people. We had arguements for sure, but still, I found them less complicated when compared to girls.. and the boys never counted me in the girls of the class.

When the course got over, my life suddenly became a void. I started missing them like anything. Never thought that I will miss those stupid people so much. There were a few seniors who are still good friends of mine. Debapriya di, Ranajoy, Debasish, Bishu, Wreet…. so many ppl.. we are still in touch πŸ™‚

Then I joined Cogni.. and again the same thing happened.. Sarvesh, Sanket, Alpesh, Satyen, Raveen… girls were my friends too. Ami, Moni, … so many people. But best friends were male I guess.. πŸ™‚ (Love you Mystic geekos! πŸ™‚ )

I do not understand why am I still not comfortable with typical girls’ mentality. I somehow find them confusing, wierd, complicated.. I still have some female friends though πŸ˜› but still, I do not get them :-/

2 thoughts on “being the Odd One Out..!

  1. see durga…… problem is not with you….. you can wear sleepers rather than covering whole earth with red Carpet……….. And when it comes to us….you know thoose two golden words …..” Kya Karu ?” …..:) πŸ˜€ πŸ˜›

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